A Different Pair of Glasses

I know not everyone wears glasses.  I did not start wearing them on a regular basis until about ten years ago, and it was only to help me with my reading.  I can drive without them and walk around the house without them, but I usually always keep them on because they do help me see things better.

 

I thought about how we all see things from our own perspective, and we don’t often see the “big picture.”   I remember years ago someone mentioning to me about tapestry and all the work that is involved in creating the beautiful artwork out of fabric and thread.  Often we will only be able to see the back side with all the tangled knots and stitches where various threads and colors are visible, but we can’t really see or even imagine what it’s going to look like until it’s done (if we have the patience to wait that long).  It is at that point where we can see how beautiful the tapestry really is as we stand back and look at it from the front (rather than the back side), from left to right, from top to bottom, to everything in between – we can see just how lovely this artwork really is --- in spite of the all the work that had to be done to make it look that way.  

 

Now of course, some of us would choose to walk away before it was ever completed because we did not want to wait, but if we did go back and look at the completed “work”, the “big picture”, then we would take on a different attitude and perspective about what really happened in the process.

 

Now I’m not talking specifically about artwork, tapestry, stitching, etc.  I’m talking about LIFE and how we perceive it because of the type of glasses we’re wearing.  If we are looking at life through our own perspective, we will never be able to see the reality of what life is all about.   Even if we’re going through a hard time, it is so difficult to have a clear and healthy vision of what’s happening.  We tend to become isolated, and self-absorbed and believe things about ourselves, our lives, our family, etc. that are not really true. 

 

But after all the trials are over, we can usually look back and say, “wow…thank you Lord for getting me through that mess, or thank you for taking that person out of my life, even though it broke my heart, or thank you for helping me find a different better job, even though I was unemployed for several weeks/months” –and many other things like that.  We don’t usually see “the big picture” until much later, but keep in mind, we CAN see the big picture before the end of the situation IF we choose to wear a different pair of glasses – the ones that He gives us.  

I can see this now so clearly because of the various things I’ve experienced in my own life.  I am learning that I need to wear these glasses while I’m in the midst of any difficult situation so I won’t be tempted to go back and see things from my view instead of His. 

Many of us have seen the movie, The Matrix, which came out in 1999.  I have seen it several times “back in the day”….and I remember the first time it brought to my mind….how to see things as they really are…depending on which “pill” you took (the red one or the blue one)…and of course, depending on which “glasses” you wear.  

 

Everyone was seeing the earth so much differently than it really was.   This guy Morpheus awakens this person, Neo, to the real world, a ravaged wasteland where most of humanity had been captured by a race of machines that lived off of the humans' body heat and electrochemical energy.  In the process of all this, these people’s minds were imprisoned within an artificial reality known as the Matrix.  They were living in a world that was so much different than what they perceived it to be.  Below is a quote from the movie:

 

“The Matrix is everywhere. It is all around us. Even now, in this very room. You can see it when you look out your window or when you turn on your television. You can feel it when you go to work, when you go to church, when you pay your taxes. It is the world that has been pulled over your eyes to blind you from the truth.”  (Morpheus in the movie, The Matrix)

Every time I think of all that went on in that movie, it makes me realize that even today, many of us do see things differently because we often allow these negative thoughts and actions to strongly control our lives.  Additionally, if we keep on focusing on these negative matters, it will continue to adversely influence how we live, how we think, how we feel, and what we do. 

 

Now keep in mind…sometimes the things we focus on are part of reality and the world we live in.  For example, if we watch too much of the current news on TV or the internet, we can become quite despondent because of all the horrible things that are happening in our town, in our country and all around the world.  If we overly focus on what we should have done differently in our past relationships with our family, our children, our spouses, etc., then sometimes we can become even more depressed and discouraged because of the things that did and did not happen.  We have to deal with it by NOT continuing to look back in the past, but to try and keep looking forward with those new glasses that we received from the Lord which enable us to see things from His perspective and not our own.   

A lot of what we look at through our own glasses can be truth and lies.  The things which are “true” can be used by the Enemy to remind us of what we don’t have and can so strongly discourage us from moving forward.  That’s when the Lord can help us focus on the truth that He has given us through His word: 

 

 “And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.” (Rom. 8:28).   We will become stronger people as we endure these hardships because His word says we “can do all things through Him who strengthens us.” (Phil. 4:13).

 

Our own glasses can also cause us to focus on lies which the Enemy can use to point out things that are NOT true about us.  He can whisper into our minds and say how bad, how worthless and how horrible we are.  He can cause us to think about all our flaws, our faults and all the bad things we may have done in our lives….but when we put on the right pair of glasses, then the Lord can help us to see that we are indeed His children, that we are forgiven, that we are totally different in how He perceives us, that He loves and cares so deeply about us, and that He has forgiven us for every bad thing we’ve ever done in our life.  

Of course, He does expect us to move forward and to make better choices and to live a life that honors Him…still, He also knows that even after we become followers of Christ, we will make mistakes, we will make bad decisions and we will do things that will disappoint Him – but remember, when we wear those new glasses, we are reminded that “if we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (I John 1:9) and that we are to “be strong and courageous.  Do not fear or be in dread of them (the enemy), for it is the Lord your God who goes with you.  He will never leave us or forsake us.” (Deuteronomy 31:6)

 

II Corinthians 1:3-4 says, “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort –who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort which we ourselves are comforted by God.”

 

Another thing to keep in mind is that despite all these trials and hard things we’re going through, we can still often be used of by God to help and bless others as they are going through their own difficulties.  When Jesus was on the cross, He felt so abandoned, so alone, as he shouted out to His Father, “Why, oh why have You forsaken me?” although He knew He was being offered as a sacrifice for OUR sins, not His own…because He never did sin…yet He was still hurting so badly at that time.   Even in the midst of all this stress and pain He was experiencing, Jesus had a heart of passion to reach out to those who were also going through a hard time.  He felt compelled to ask His best friend and disciple, John, to help His mother, Mary, get through the hard times after He was gone.   (John 19:26-27), and then just before He died, one of the guys who was being crucified at the same time said to Him, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom” to which Jesus replied, “Truly I say to you, today you will be with me in Paradise.” (Luke 23:42-43). 

 

“Hard times” is something that we will all continue to struggle with throughout different seasons of life, but we will have to constantly remind ourselves to deal with these things in the right way – to listen and believe the truth of how God perceives us, to demolish the lies we hear from the Enemy and our own negative thoughts, and to ultimately deal with these issues in a way that will Honor God.   And when we put on these new glasses, it will help take our focus off ourselves and to see everything through His perspective and not our own. 

 

In closing, I want to share one last thing.  Last year, I showed this video to some ladies who were in a Bible study and I was teaching about this subject – seeing things differently from God’s view even when we’re going through “hard times.”   I, along with several others, had been going through some trials and difficult times.  I bought several pairs of these 3D glasses from a local museum that people buy when they go see a Cosmic Concert at the planetarium and had the ladies put them on while we watched this video on Youtube, where the band Tenth Avenue North played this song, “Worn.” 

I wanted them to hear the words to this song from a different perspective, and it really helped many of them “see” what I was talking about (it also helped me…) [smile]

Here’s the link to the video and here’s the words:

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UUEy8nZvpdM

 

Worn – by Tenth Avenue North

I'm tired, I'm worn - My heart is heavy
From the work it takes to keep on breathing
I've made mistakes - I've let my hope fail
My soul feels crushed by the weight of this world
And I know that you can give me rest
So I cry out with all that I have left.

Chorus –

Let me see redemption win
Let me know the struggle ends

That you can mend a heart that's frail and torn
I want to know a song can rise from the ashes of a broken life
And all that's dead inside can be reborn - Cause I'm worn…

I know I need - to lift my eyes up -- 

but I'm too weak - life just won't let up
And I know that You can give me rest - 

So I cry out with all that I have left

Chorus --

Let me see redemption win
Let me know the struggle ends
That you can mend a heart that's frail and torn
I want to know a song can rise from the ashes of a broken life
And all that's dead inside can be reborn - Cause I'm worn

And my prayers are wearing thin
I'm worn even before the day begins
I'm worn I've lost my will to fight
I'm worn so heaven come and flood my eyes 

Chorus--

Let me see redemption win
Let me know the struggle ends
That you can mend a heart that's frail and torn
I want to know a song can rise - from the ashes of a broken life
And all that's dead inside can be reborn
Yes all that's dead inside will be reborn
Though I'm worn 
Yeah I'm worn